There are really only three things that you need to remember, sweet heart. If you can remember these three things then everything else will fall into place.
Relax into everything and everything will make itself available to you. By relaxing you will take your time while evaluating a situation. The time you take will allow more information to rise up to help with a better decision. When we make hasty decisions and judgements, often we regret only because we did not give time enough space to work its magic. We did not relax, enjoy the experience or simply wait to see what was coming next. The decision, often, becomes one of regret due to what we really wanted being over looked. So relax into everything decided, enjoy the complete process and let time work its magic. But when you KNOW that your desire is in front of you, let nothing stop you from merging with it.
Responsibility is a word that many people will throw around carelessly. Be careful who you listen to about its meaning. If you have relaxed into a decision and made an agreement then you become responsible for fulfilling that agreement. Do not mistake another persons responsibility as your own. You will have a full enough life fulfilling your own responsibilities and you are not responsible for others agreements. If others break their agreements with you, show a lack of responsibility, it then becomes your responsibility to relax into a decision regarding this broken responsibility of the other. You could hastily respond but rarely will this bring you the over all satisfaction desired. A response is required, just as if you do not fulfill your own responsibilities. Only if danger is associated with the lack of responsibility should you react quickly. If this is the case then do so in such a way that the danger is completely dissolved. Relax into your decisions. Beware of cutting off your nose to spite your face, sweet heart.... your nose is perfectly adorable sitting right there between those beautiful eyes... lets leave it there ok?
Reliability anchors the other two R's. Without this, you will have much heart ache. Heart ache will come during this life. My job, sweetheart, is not to save you from it but to show you how to survive it. Reliability/consistency is what defines you as an individual, as a unique person. Become reliable/consistent in all endeavors. It does not matter what the endeavor happens to be, personal appearance, work ethics, friendship, all mannerisms, be reliable. It is in this reliability that you announce to the world who you are. Never apologize for who you are because, Darling, you are amazing.
Now get out there tiger... there is an entire world waiting for you. Go get em....
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