Saturday, November 2, 2013

(R)Evolution Milestones

Day 3 of our 30 days

Good morning Sweet Pea.  Hope you slept well.  What should we talk about today?

Today is my Birthday so lets talk about that.  Each year, we have our own personal New Year.  It is much more personal than the calendar new year because it belongs just to you.  It is a day of reflection, hope, tears, laughter, lost dreams and new dreams.

Every year we look over the past year to see what it held.  

We cry over any sadness of that year and understand that the only reason it can be sad is because we lost something important to us.  We never feel sad over an event unless it has held importance in some way.  Now, honey, you can choose to do a few things with those events.  You can choose to continue being sad or you can choose to discover where the importance is in the loosing of it.  Every time it will be something that was outside of your control.  It will be something that you, for what ever reason, needed to make a decision to walk away from.  To continue would have too many possibilities for more hurt to yourself or others.  Sometimes it is a decision that was a part of someones' life, not of your own making, that interacts with your own year.  Sometimes we have made a mistake to learn from.  If you could control those possibilities then I know you would fix the problem in which case it would not be a sadness today.  Today is the day when we say good bye to last years lost dreams and celebrate the joy they brought to us.  

The important thing here is that today, we are going to acknowledge our year.  We will let go of what does not belong in our new year to make room for our new dreams.

Good, sweetheart, we have that out of the way.  

Now, what do you want to do this year?  What are your dreams?  What is it that you want to keep doing this year from last?  Today is your day and the possibilities are as endless as on the day you first came to join us here on Planet Earth.... a brand new little human.

The difference darling is that today, you choose.

Happy Birthday... this brand new year will be full of surprises, happiness, and most importantly life. 





2 comments:

  1. Oh my goodness Sho I am so upset that I missed your birthday. Birthdays are my favorite holiday! I hope it was a good one. In fact, I hope every day since then has been a good one. Thanks for sharing your learned wisdom. You are an awesome group!

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    1. Hugs Cheryl and no worries. It has been a wonderful day. I took a nap, we finished oiling the hardwood. I made cupcakes filled with pudding, took some to the neighbors, another tray for Karen's crew in the morning. Made exactly what I wanted for dinner exactly how I wanted it. Rare Ribeye, double stuffed baked potato, a wonderful salad and cheese bread. It has been a birthday to remember with how absolutely wonderfully peaceful it has been. Neighbor children came over selling these coupon books to help pay for school uniforms and we enjoyed watching his sellsmanship as we bought a wonderful coupon book from him. So I mean it really does not get any better than this. Thank you for the Birthday Wishes. Hugs...xoxoxoxo

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